You have to take risks

"You have to take risks, he said. We will only understand the miracle of life fully when we allow the unexpected to happen".

Everywhere I go, whoever I talk to, there's always this fear. A fear of getting hurt, of being betrayed, of being unhappy. This fear though, does it make you happy? Do you feel better when you think the guy you are dating is with another girl, then if he actually was? Do you feel happy, strong and all powerful because you build walls around you and refuse to believe there are any genuine loving people out there, because you've been cheated on before? Is that a better feeling than to love fully and actually be betrayed?

My heart blackberry I found about 1,5 years ago

I would guess it's about the same kind of hurt in all these cases. 

This is why we need to let go. The only way we can be truly happy is when we love fully, and give all of it away without fear. To love fully though, we need a solid foundation. Solid as fu**. We need to fill ourselves up with love for ourselves. 

Practice self love, and open that heart of yours! Because you know what? It is super super super strong. 

What I always want to tell people who say they are afraid to love again because they've been hurt, is that they should be even more willing to take the risk now, just because you made it through before. If your current relationship falls apart, then you know for sure that you will make it through again, because you've done it before. 

When you are on the look out for betrayals, you don't love. You doubt. 
Let it go. Please. Spread love all around and release the fear, it is the only way.